HI, I HOPE I CAN HELP YOU. ASK YOUR QUESTIONS HERE

2008-11-06T09:23:00.000-08:00

Hi everybody, some of you already know me, from my web page "bufetevila.com"

I'm a valencian lawyer, born on the 18th of May 1965, I am adopted. When Iwas 23 years old, I began searching for my biological parents, after I casually I discovered that I was adopted.

To date, I've not had success, although I have already done two DNA tests with possible candidates that could be my mother..........

But don't worry, as I explain in my web page in more detail, in most cases, the people that are adopted can find who is their biological mother, with relative ease in the public archives. Although now it is necessary in Spain and other countrys, to have a lawyer and it is done through a judicial process.

However, I have dedicated so much time and work to this, I have been a specialist in this area, practically leaving all other areas of law, and centering the work of my law firm in helping those that are searching to find and to know who they are, and where they come from...........

The succes has been considerable, and since 1.999, it is relatively "easy" to find the biological parents for adopted people.....in this i can help you. Go and visit my web page.

Saddly, almost everybody, approximately 10 % of abandoned children, born in purely religious institutions, literally in the maternity ward of convent, and to date there is little we can do, as the position of the church is inmmovible, und they don't mind the law, the constitution, or our rights..... Because of this I can't find, like so many other adopted friends in the same situation as me.

I have not lost hope, and I suppose that same day their god will illuminate them, and will bond their with us saying to us who are our mothers. But maybe this is a very long and profound debate, to talk about in another place....

However, at last I have the satisfaction that for the rest of abandoned children, the majority, like I have said, yes it is possible to find, and I put all my determination in this.

The purpos of this blog, is to strongly united you, to help you, to encourage you, ant to give you all of my professional advice, where I can with 100% commitment.

Anyone of your questions, will be attended through my email ( bufetevila@bufetevila.com), but is very good that you leave your comments here, BECAUSE LOTS OF THE TIME PEOPLE CAN BENEFIT FROM THESE QUESTIONS, WHEN THEY FIND THEMSELVES IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS TO OTHERS.

Besides, this blog being is a meeting point it is also personal confort, for everyone that is adopted that we talk about our warries, doubts and desires. And why not ?

I'm very satisfied to be able to help you, and truely consider you almost like siblings from the cradle, and the quest......any idea, any suggestions, any questions, support or anything, will be welcomed on this page.

A BIG HUG TO YOU ALL, BROTHERS AND SISTERS........

Searching for my biological parents

HI, I HOPE I CAN HELP YOU. ASK YOUR QUESTIONS HERE